Learning vs feedback vs criticism: Generally, when someone makes a negative comment about other person, it is taken as a criticism (and often an argument develops). We are unable to control what other people says about us. Then again, we CAN control how we receive the comment:
1.- We can feel offended
2.- We can ignore the comment
3.- We can hear the feedback and learn how we can improve ourselves
It is easy to do number one, and nice when we do number 2… Neither of these will help us. Only the last one will make us better, will make us learn about who we are and what we want to become.