Most people want to succeed at something, while at the same time fear the changes they must do to succeed. You and only you can make the changes you need to achieve your success!
The secret to achieve your success involves:
1. Be willing to fail and learn from it to try again and again until done.
2. Be willing let go our ego, stop mocking around and stop giving ourselves excuses to avoid doing it.
3. Be willing to change yourself, to become what you want to be.
We always have options. Instead of problem, look at the challenge.
How about focusing on what you can do and doing it?