I little while ago, I saw a video as part a self-development program and there was this character who was stocked in an escalator, which stopped working. The character was so focus on the escalator not working and how to get it fixed that did not realise he could just walk up or down out of the escalator and continue as normal.
Imagine how many challenges we would conquer, how issues we would resolve and how many arguments we could settle by changing the way we look at them.